As New Year’s Day approaches I am thinking about what I would like to reset or redo in my marriage from the previous year. It is not that I get to undo anything done, but that I get to choose to do it differently. I can always choose to do it differently at anytime during the year, but for some reason starting a new year is an easy clean slate to start from.
New Year’s day approaching tends to have me look back at what I would have done differently.
I like getting to set new goals and ideas for my life, bettering myself and the way I treat others around me also helps me to feel great about me. I want 2016 to be the best year yet, which is what I think every year, and as I grow older and wiser it seems to be that I use the years better and I grow up in my behaviors, attitudes and in the words I speak.
Don’t get me wrong, I also look back and appreciate the last year for what it was and think of the things I would like to continue doing.
I think it is healthy to look at how I felt I lived right throughout the year also and not just beat myself up about what I want to change. I tend to have guilt about a lot of things in life so looking back on what I accomplished and succeeded at really helps in maintaining my sanity and uplifting my spirit.