• New Loveseat

    #2 Sex And Touch In Marriage

    This summer we are revisiting out top 10 posts, #2 Sex And Touch In Marriage was originally posted December 10, 2013 Lisa’s thoughts on sex and touch in marriage… Many books and theories boast that non-sexual touch is necessary for a woman to be able to grow intimately with her husband.  I feel that this concept confuses many men and they just give up due to not being able to grasp the concept of non-sexual touch.  Non-sexual touch leads to intimacy which leads to sex, so it is a necessary part of a marriage for a woman that contributes to her being sexually intimate with her husband. Let’s take a…

  • New Loveseat

    #3 Foreplay

    This summer we are revisiting our top 10 posts, #3 Foreplay was originally posted April 14, 2014 This weekend in our small group we talked about foreplay and it has had me thinking about the importance of foreplay in a marriage. While discussing foreplay at group it became quite apparent that men and women view foreplay and its role in marriage very differently.  My husband made an analogy that makes great sense.  He said that men view foreplay as the ride or attraction at Disney Land while women view foreplay as all of the stops on the way to Disney Land.  In other words, men see foreplay as a part…

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    #4 Putting the S In Sex

    This summer we are revisiting our top 10 posts, #4 Putting the S In Sex was originally posted November 9, 2013 Ok, so I am going out on a bit of a limb here… I feel that women need to play more of a role in the sexual relationship in their marriage.  A lot of women feel a lack of satisfaction with the sexual relationship they have with their spouse but they never speak up about it.  I have been frustrated by the sexual differences between me and my husband.   The frequency of our sexual needs don’t line up and we can’t seem to find enough time to have quality…