• Attention,  Communication,  Instinct,  kissing,  Mutuality,  Needs,  New Loveseat,  Sex

    Kissing

    I am feeling really inspired by the 10 day challenge (day 7) over at onefleshmarriage.com 10 Day Challenge – Day 7 So, I am going to blog about everything most men know about great kissing…   (Insert an uncomfortably long audio sample of the sound of crickets)   I grew up a non believer. One of the “fringe benefits” of my ignorance was that I was quite promiscuous when it came to kissing, I couldn’t count the girls I had “made out” with in high school, and now I am very ashamed of that past. What it leaves me with is a ton of confusion.  I think I’m a great…

  • Needs,  New Loveseat,  Sex

    PORN

    I am not a smoker, I did try very hard to be one in my youth to “fit in” in high school for about 4 months, but I just couldn’t hack it.  I stopped quite easily because I did not “like” smoking, but to this day all my friends who are smokers try quitting again and again and again.  I know of a person from my past that recently started smoking again after having been a non smoker for nearly 15 years! The reason I assume it’s so hard to quit smoking is that the motivation behind quitting is trumped by that fact that the smoker enjoys smoking.  It’s when…

  • Holiday Stress,  New Loveseat,  Sex

    Holiday Intimacy

    Lisa on staying one through the holidays… This time of the year can be a tough time to maintain oneness with my spouse.  There is far more running around to do, time spent with extended family is increased, finances are decreased and the children are home from school for many extra days.  Not to mention cold, snow and less daylight hours in our part of the country! This year I am just learning to say thank you so much, but that is not going to work for our schedule. The holidays are a time of year where we tend to over extend ourselves. Friends are having parties, family expects us at…