• Attention,  Communication,  Instinct,  kissing,  Mutuality,  Needs,  New Loveseat,  Sex

    Kissing

    I am feeling really inspired by the 10 day challenge (day 7) over at onefleshmarriage.com 10 Day Challenge – Day 7 So, I am going to blog about everything most men know about great kissing…   (Insert an uncomfortably long audio sample of the sound of crickets)   I grew up a non believer. One of the “fringe benefits” of my ignorance was that I was quite promiscuous when it came to kissing, I couldn’t count the girls I had “made out” with in high school, and now I am very ashamed of that past. What it leaves me with is a ton of confusion.  I think I’m a great…

  • Needs,  New Loveseat,  Sex

    PORN

    I am not a smoker, I did try very hard to be one in my youth to “fit in” in high school for about 4 months, but I just couldn’t hack it.  I stopped quite easily because I did not “like” smoking, but to this day all my friends who are smokers try quitting again and again and again.  I know of a person from my past that recently started smoking again after having been a non smoker for nearly 15 years! The reason I assume it’s so hard to quit smoking is that the motivation behind quitting is trumped by that fact that the smoker enjoys smoking.  It’s when…

  • Attention,  Needs,  New Loveseat

    Just Fluff the Towel

    Have you ever contemplated the habits of your spouse?  Why does he do those things he does?  Why does she insist on doing things that way?  Why doesn’t my spouse do things my way?  I have, and what I came up with is “we are very different people” but my husband makes sure to notice what I like and do those things for me. It was all those different, interesting habits that made me fall in love my husband in the first place! I have a very attentive husband who pays attention to the little things I like and tries to remember to do them for me.  He has never…